Cathy Lou Sandefur, 69, of Henderson, Ky, passed away peacefully on November 7, 2025. She was born on June 30, 1956, to Freeman McCartney and Margaret (Willingham) McCartney.
Cathy was a devoted wife, loving mother, and cherished grandmother. She married the love of her life, Raymond Sandefur, and together they built a beautiful family filled with love and laughter. Ray and Cathy were happily married for 52 years.
She is survived by her husband Raymond; her sons Jason Sandefur (wife Mellisa) and Derek Sandefur (wife Crissy); her grandchildren Lynden, Hudson, and Ayden Sandefur; her sister Pam McCartney; and her brother Doug McCartney. She also leaves behind many other family members and friends who will miss her dearly.
Cathy was preceded in death by her parents, Margaret McCartney Willingham and Freeman McCartney, and her brother Larry McCartney.
A homemaker for most of her life, Cathy dedicated her time to caring for her family and creating a warm, welcoming home. She was an avid reader and a lifelong fan of the St. Louis Cardinals, rarely missing a game. Cathy’s gentle spirit, sharp wit, and loving heart touched everyone who knew her. Her memory will forever live on in the hearts of those she loved.
A service for Cathy will be held on Thursday, November 13th. Visitation will be from 2:30-5:30 pm at One Life Church (Henderson) with a memorial service beginning at 5:30 pm.
Kevin O'Bryan says
When I think of great memories from my favorite parts of life, Cathy and the Sandefur family are in many (most) of them. She was a hoot to be around, always enjoyed a great laugh, and extended hospitality to every person that walked through her front door. If you never had the blessing of meeting her, you missed out. She was one of a kind, and will be greatly missed. Love ya, Cathy Lou!
Harry E Keach (Eddie) says
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers.
John Denham says
I’m so sorry ray we went to school together me and you I didn’t know your wife but I just wanted to so I’m sorry for you lost ray your truly John Denham
Terry Bowling says
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY
Lisa Cox says
Prayers for your entire family.
May you feel the peace and comfort of God during this difficult time.
Donna Hatfield says
So sorry. Many great memories growing up on Wright Street.